Brothers and Sisters,
What do you want for yourselves? What is the life you want? What do you really enjoy doing? What are the attributes that you have that are natural to you? What are the interests that you have that are natural to you? Do not answer these questions believing one answer is more noble than another. There are no right or wrong answers to this. This is not about what you wish for another or about you defining who your children or spouse should be. This is about you being honest with yourself about your dreams and aspirations. If you have a spouse or children, ask them to answer the questions for themselves.
Many people scoff that the manifestation process doesn’t work. They pray or invoke and get no results but what are you truly praying for or trying to invoke? Is it in alignment with you and where you want to go? Are you trying to create what you have already done or mastered? How would you truly feel about getting the same thing over and over again. You can’t do the same thing over and over again and expect different results or energy. You must be willing to make changes and do things differently. This time try to create what you truly value instead of what you have been told you should value. Dare to be different, original, authentic. Remove fear from the equation. Do not plead for something. Do not pray for what another should create or do. Do not waste creative energy on trying to manifest for another being. Let each do their own work. The energy is much better served. Come from a place of power and true desire for your own path and destiny. See if that doesn’t make a huge difference in the creation process.