For those who are working at being something other than what you are, how is that working for you? Trying to force yourself into another mold will not be honoring of what is within you. Many think that certain behaviors are the path of spirituality. You are already spirits. Your innate energy is your innate energy. You will not be able to hold onto a different vibration. What you are serves. It just may be an energy that pushes away those whom you might profess to desire to attract.
To be honoring and authentic, you must be who and what you are. From that place, others may decide how to be with you. Showing who and what you are allows others to make better decisions that will affect them. To be anything other than who and what you are creates a bait and switch energy and will not honor anyone.