To evolve to what you need to be, strip away the illusions and the conditioning. Source your true essence. Release those who are not meant to be with and around you. Be open. You are what you need to be but you often convolute that energy to fit in or be the energy that others demand of you.
When you learn to truly be who and what you are, you have no need to adjust to others. Your ways are the ways of the light. Find your core truth. Find your core being. Allow yourself to truly shine and be. Release the attachment of who and what you think you need. You will find a sense of freedom in this energy.