People get into trouble, when they try to make something into what they want it to be instead of what it really is. We do this with people and situations all of the time. How does this really work for us? Yet we all do this pattern in some form or another. It is better to see people and situation for what they really are. It helps you know where you stand with the person and situation. Then, you can make a clearer and better decision on how to be with someone and how to proceed with the situation.
the Godhead and Ken