See people, things and situations for what they are. Be honest with what is taking place. Don’t try and obscure something or assume it is something different from what it is. Don’t make excuses for what something is and how you want it to be something different. Don’t try and change others. They are who and what they are. The innate being is not going to change. The only one who can create change is the individual because they truly want to change. People don’t change for other people. People change because it serves them to change.
Learn to let go of what needs to be released without having to create a fight or angst. When you let go of what needs to be released, you create an openness for new energy and energy aligned with you. Holding onto what isn’t yours will never truly work.