Look at what is in your control and what is out of your control. Utilize control over what you actually control and surrender the need to control what isn’t under your control. Many times people try to control things that they have absolutely no control over. This only creates frustration. You can make decisions based on what is happening to you and with you. You have no control over other people or certain timing. There are many variables that can alter things. You do your part of the equation and then go from there. You never know how things are working in the grander scheme. There may be a reason something is showing up a certain way.