If there is anyone whose life you are holding onto, release them. Give each person their life back. Let each person be responsible for their choices and actions. You are not responsible for another. You may love someone dearly and work with them to help them succeed but that is a choice you make to help them with that piece. Ultimately, each must choose what is right for them. There are some that you are linked with and you serve a purpose by helping them in their purpose and experiences. You never know, unless you check in and ask for guidance in how to be with someone and a certain situation. You may still do this work with them but let them have their own choices and life back. Take back your own choices and your life. Trust that you will know how to be with each moment that presents itself. You find new roles to play.