Saturday, November 10, 2012

When people have the intention of helping but then start telling people how to do things and what to do, without being asked for help, does it really help? It becomes and imposition when we start to tell someone what they need to do and how they need to do it. You may have the best intentions in the world but if you are forcing your type of help on a situation that is asking you to please stop, you are not being of any help. At least, wait until you are asked.

There is plenty in this world for each being to do. We don’t need to force our way into situations to prove our worth. If you are invoking a desire to be of help, there is no reason to let your ego take over and feel offended, if someone doesn’t want your help. Simply invoke your desire to help and then ask where you are needed and desired. Ask someone before you jump in to do something for them. If they say no thanks, please honor them and step away. If you are asked to help in a situation, please don’t start giving someone your litany of demands. You are in someone else’s space and to really be of help there is no place for intrusiveness. If the energy feels off, it is off. Trust that. You are looking for ways of helping where the energy is aligned. You are creating win/win situations.