People create the lives that work for them. They are not here to create lives that work for others and that others agree with. Each must follow their own path.
Allow the people who belong with you to show up and be with you. Don’t try and assign who must be in your life. You will have what you need. People may come and go in your life. Allow the evolutionary path to take its course.
When something is no longer working for you, you may choose to shift, charge or do something differently. Each must decide for themselves. Focusing on what others do is never going to serve you. Focus on what you are doing and what is working for you.