Know that you can each create blessings and prayers. You are not confined to what is in prayer books or based on what your religious education teaches you. Let the blessings or prayers be of honor. Do not invoke anything that might shift or change the destiny of another. Do not place fear in the invocation or create a prayer based on your fears. Do speak from your heart. Share you concerns with the energies who are charged to help and support you. Know you will always be surrounded in love and support for whatever you need.
If you are praying for someone to be healed and they pass away, know that might be the healing that they needed. You cannot change the outcome for another that needs to happen. You are better off finding ways to support the journey of each being. Bless others with your love and support for their success in whatever they need to participate in. Bless others on their journeys. Don’t worry about how things may appear. It will be just as it needs to be. When you speak to God, the Universe or whatever you address in your prayers, speak from your heart and that is the best prayer you can offer.