The watchword of today is: I am what I am! You never need to try and be what you are. You are innately what is within you. Honor what is within you! There are traits you may modify but if they are within you, they will still be there. Your personality is yours and ingrained in you. Being honest about who and what you are is the starting place. Those traits are part of your physical experiences that you programmed into your life.
Those who belong with you will show up. There is no need to force yourself on others or allow them to force themselves on you. Those who are part of your earth experiences will show up in the perfect timing.