Take a look at the petty annoyances in your life. How much of them are you putting your energy into? How much of your time do you invest in them? This is just something that robs your energy.
Focus on what you truly wish to focus on. Be what you truly wish to be and put your energy into whatever supports that.
Your evolution is in process right now. It is time to refine energy to make it workout well. You should be able to start clearing out what no longer fits and open up to a way that is in better alignment to what you wish to be.
Most power comes from Being. The doing comes from what shows up and not from being reactive but from knowing what to do with whatever shows up in life.