You can each save yourselves a lot of grief and issues by tuning in before you contact someone or say yes or no to doing something. If the answer comes back as no or stay away, then listen to what comes through. Most of you get into trouble by hearing a clear answer and then doing something completely different. Many of you don’t understand that we are here to help you but can’t interfere in many instances, unless asked. So, you assume it is okay to do something and then you end up with people who don’t belong with you or around you or situations that are not right for you.
We have said this before, that not everyone belongs with you. You also have the right to change your mind on something that you engage in that isn’t right for you. You are not doomed to having to continue with something that is not right for you. If you engage with someone who feels really off in your life, you are not supposed to suffer through and allow them to stay connected with you. Some people can’t take hints, even if you are really clear with them and you just need to step away.
It is important to learn to step away from those people and situations that are night right for you. It will free up your energy to do what is right for you. It is okay to have quiet time in transitions and to just be where you are. You don’t need to always find people and experiences to fill the void.