What type of environment do you wish to live in? We are not just talking about the space but how the space feels. Is your home a place of chaos or a place of rest and relaxation? Do you want your home to be a sanctuary or a place where much is taking place all of the time? Do you wish various energy at various times? There is no right or wrong answer to this question. This is only something that is for you.
The next question is, what prevents you from creating what you truly desire? What would need to happen to shift your life and home to the energy you wish to spend time in?
The answers could require that you move or that you change your relationships. You are not stuck with what you currently have. But to create what you desire, you must be clear about what you desire.