Within the parameter of home, each of you needs to find what gives you comfort. Your home should be a place where you can relax and be yourself. You should be able to be open and relaxed. When you live in environments where you feel that you must be on guard each moment, you are not truly at home.
Envision the type of home that would make you happy. What do you want with relationship to friends, family and environment? Do you want a porch or some land around you? We may need you to live in a certain area of the country, state or world but within that you can have many things that will help you to do the work you are meant to do and live the life that you are meant to live. Find and create what works best for you.
If you hate being in an area, there are probably other areas around you that you might enjoy. We may tell you which city or community to live in but it is up to you to find something within those parameters that works well for you. We are working with you to help you do your best. Being in a comfortable environment will only help you do better work and live a more fulfilling life.