So many try to create labels and to define themselves, be defined by others or to define others. But the label means nothing. It becomes a false definition.
Many try to be like someone else or to fit into a group. That is not your power or your gifts. You must be who or what you are and nothing more or less.
When someone seeks to go somewhere because of others, they are not showing up where they need to be. You are better off showing up where you need to be and letting others be where they need to be. Those who belong with you will be with you. When each of you learn to do this it will be better for all concerned.
You can’t force someone to be where you want them to be because that ends up dishonoring everyone. You all need to be who and what you are and where you need to be. You are never alone and you always have what you truly need.
If you perceive that you need something and it isn’t showing up, look at where the block may be coming form. In many cases, you will be giving conflicting information about what you want. Also, remember to thrive and not settle for survival mode. The shift form survival mode to thriving mode is very powerful.